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Long-form writing on conscious marketing, gender-inclusive language, LGBTQ+ inclusion, and accessibility.

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ADHD-Friendly Marketing: How to Build a Strategy Your Brain Can Actually Return To

ADHD-friendly marketing is not about forcing consistency. Learn how neurodivergent entrepreneurs can build sustainable marketing systems rooted in care, capacity, and repetition.

A lot of marketing advice assumes you can plan ahead, stay consistent, batch-create content, track metrics, follow trends, remember to follow up, make hundreds of tiny decisions, and somehow not get overwhelmed.

I’m sorry. Whose brain is this built for? Because it’s not mine.

For many neurodivergent entrepreneurs, creatives, coaches, healers, consultants, and service providers, marketing is not as simple as “just posting.” It’s not just a matter of creating a content calendar, picking a platform, and deciding to be consistent.

Many of us are navigating executive functioning challenges, sensory overwhelm, timelessness, rejection sensitivity, decision fatigue, perfectionism, visibility vulnerability, burnout, chronic illness, trauma, or some combination of the above.

So no, “just be consistent” is not a strategy.

And if your marketing plan requires you to override your body, shame your brain, or perform a version of professionalism that was never built for you, that is not strategy. That is a recipe for self-abandonment.

What is neurodivergent-friendly marketing?

Neurodivergent-friendly marketing is an approach that considers the actual needs, rhythms, capacity, sensory experiences, and nervous system realities of neurodivergent people.

This might include people with ADHD, autism, dyslexia, OCD, sensory processing differences, learning differences, PTSD, CPTSD, or other forms of neurodivergence.

It is not about assuming every neurodivergent person needs the same tools. Neurodivergence is not monolithic. What supports one person may create friction for someone else.

Instead, neurodivergent-friendly marketing asks better questions.

Not: How do I force myself to keep up?
Instead: What rhythm can I actually return to?

Not: How do I post on every platform?
Instead: Where does my voice have the most room to breathe?

Not: How do I make this perfect?
Instead: What is the least-friction way to get this done and make it useful?

At its core, neurodivergent-friendly marketing is about building a marketing system that supports your capacity instead of punishing you for having one.

Why traditional marketing advice often fails neurodivergent entrepreneurs

Most conventional marketing advice is built around assumptions.

It assumes you have consistent energy—that we all have “the same 24 hours in a day.” It also assumes you can plan week and months ahead, switch easily between tasks, interpret analytics without spiraling, and that you can simply discipline yourself into visibility. 

But many neurodivergent people do not struggle with marketing because they are unmotivated or unprofessional. Many of us struggle because the systems we’ve been handed were not designed with our brains, bodies, or lived realities in mind.

A traditional content calendar might work beautifully for one person and completely shut someone else down. A rigid posting schedule might create clarity for one business owner and shame for another. A trend-driven strategy might generate visibility while also creating sensory overload, decision fatigue, and creative disconnection.

That does not mean neurodivergent people cannot market effectively. It means the marketing strategy needs to be built differently.

ADHD-friendly marketing starts with reducing friction

If you have ADHD, the issue often is (likely) not that you lack ideas.

The issue may be that there are too many ideas, too many tabs open, too many possible directions, too many steps between inspiration and execution, and too many moments where your brain has to decide what to do next.

ADHD-friendly marketing should reduce the number of decisions required to show up.

That might look like:

  • Using the same templates repeatedly.

  • Turning voice notes into captions.

  • Keeping a running list of content ideas in one easy-to-access place.

  • Creating “good enough” versions of posts.

  • Letting simple content count.

  • Choosing one primary platform instead of trying to be everywhere.

  • Repeating yourself often.

  • Building in recovery time after high-visibility moments.

  • Creating a few content categories you can return to again and again.

This is not about lowering your standards. It is about creating a system you can actually use.

Because the best marketing strategy is not the most impressive one. It is the one you can return to.

Repetition is not boring. Repetition is supportive.

Many business owners worry they are repeating themselves too much in their marketing.

But repetition is not a problem. It is part of the work.

Your audience is not studying your content as closely as you are. They are living their lives. They are missing posts. They are skimming. They are taking in your message slowly over time.

Repetition helps people understand what you do, who you serve, what you care about, how you can help, and how to work with you.

For neurodivergent entrepreneurs, repetition can also reduce decision fatigue.

You do not need to reinvent your entire marketing strategy every week. You do not need a brand-new hot take every time you post. You do not need to turn yourself into a content machine.

You can return to the same themes, you can say the same things in different ways, you can reuse the same templates, and you can let your body of work build over time. 

The goal is not to become a content machine.

The goal is to help people see and understand what you do, who you serve, what you care about, how you help, and how to work with you.

This can happen without contorting yourself.

Your brain is not the problem

Your brain is not the problem. A lot of marketing advice is simply too narrow, rewarding urgency, constant production, polish, trend-chasing, and visibility at all costs. It often treats capacity as an inconvenience instead of a real and necessary part of strategy.

But sustainable marketing should not require self-abandonment.

Sometimes the most effective strategy is the one your nervous system can actually survive. Sometimes the most strategic thing you can do is make your marketing simpler. Sometimes the most powerful thing you can do is repeat yourself. Sometimes the most accessible content is the content you can create without forcing yourself into burnout.

Neurodivergent-friendly marketing is not about doing less because you are less capable. It is about designing better systems because your capacity matters.

And when your marketing becomes more accessible for you, it often becomes clearer, more honest, and more useful for the people you are here to serve.

A few reflection questions for ADHD-friendly marketing

To begin building a more neurodivergent-friendly marketing rhythm, ask yourself:

  • What kind of content feels easiest for me to create?

  • Where does my voice feel most natural?

  • What parts of marketing create the most friction?

  • What am I trying to force that I could simplify?

  • What could I repeat more often?

  • What would “good enough” marketing look like this week?

  • What recovery time do I need after being visible?

  • What rhythm can I actually return to?

You do not have to answer all of these at once. Start with one.

The next accessible step counts.

Final thought

Neurodivergent-friendly marketing is not just a content calendar with gentle fonts.

It is a way of rethinking strategy through care, capacity, access, repetition, choice, recovery, and sustainability.

It asks us to stop treating our brains as obstacles and start designing marketing systems that honor how we actually work.

Remember: your marketing should not require you to override your body, shame your brain, or perform a version of professionalism that was never built for you.

You are allowed to build something you can return to. Paying attention and honoring your own rhythms and needs can be the strategy. 

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LGBTQ+ Allyship for Yoga Teachers

Originally published with Yoga Journal, this article unpacks some of the ways we can engage in the practice of allyship, and how allyship directly ties into Patanjali’s Yoga Sutras through the teachings of the yamas and niyamas.

Originally published as “Want to be a True Ally? Do the Inner Work” with Yoga Journal magazine.

We can create “safer” spaces for trans and non-binary people in yoga spaces. Here’s how. 

In yoga and wellness communities, the term “safe space” has intended to mean that “all are welcome.” But, the truth is, we cannot guarantee safety for every single person in a yoga space—because each individual has different needs and a personal understanding of what “safety” means for them. It’s impossible to hold space for an entire group of people and ensure that each person’s individual needs are constantly met, especially when what they need may shift or change.

But, while we might not be able to guarantee safe spaces, we can create safer spaces, says yoga teacher and social justice warrior Michelle Cassandra Johnson. Our yoga practice can show us how.

What is a safer space?

As a transgender, nonbinary, and queer person who has been practicing yoga for twenty years, I know firsthand the need for safer yoga spaces for those of us who don’t conform to gender norms, assignments, or expectations—spaces that welcome and respect trans and non-binary students, spaces where we aren’t misgendered or subjected to transphobic remarks, where we aren’t given dirty looks for being “unreadable” as a “man or woman,” where we can use a public bathroom or changing room in peace.

Safer spaces and communities are created by and with allies who see, validate, and affirm trans and non-binary community members. But genuine allyship—also often referred to as being an “accomplice” or a “co-conspirator”—is rooted in inner work. We cannot be in solidarity with others without committing to the deeper practices of noticing and questioning our thoughts, our actions, and our relationships. The truth is that allyship, like yoga, is a practice of inner work. And we must commit to this deeper work in order to create safer yoga spaces for all.

Finding the ally within

As a yoga teacher, you cannot guarantee the safety of your trans students. But aiming to create safer spaces for trans folks is within everyone’s reach. Doing so calls on the teachings of yoga, beginning with the yamas and niyamas—the ethical precepts contained in Patanjali’s Yoga Sutras that are intended to guide our thoughts, actions, and relationships.

On our yoga mats, we learn to watch the nature of our minds, to observe our reactions and thought patterns, and to return to the present moment. This is Yoga Sutra 1.2, Yogas-citta-vrtti-nirodhah, in action. Melissa Shah, a yoga therapist trained in the Viniyoga tradition, interprets this Sutra to mean “directing the mind with sustained attention.”

Slowing down and practicing mindfulness is a yogic practice that supports us in engaging in the inner work we must do before we can fully engage in the outer work of allyship. When we slow down and when we practice mindfulness, we can remember the things that help us to become stronger allies.

Through present-moment awareness, we might be better able to notice our biases, the assumptions we make about others, and the ways in which our minds might be conditioned to see gender. By staying mindful, we can shift our minds, our behaviors, and our language choices in the moment.

When we practice mindfulness, we can remember that we can’t assume someone’s gender based on appearances. We can take the time to slow down and remember someone’s pronouns—or find the humility to ask if we’ve forgotten. We can choose to replace gendered language and heteronormative images with gender neutral words, cues, and imagery in our practice space and communities. Most importantly, we can acknowledge when harm has occurred—whether we’ve been the perpetrator or a witness—and we can engage in the practice of repair. We can take responsibility and hold ourselves and others accountable.

Applying the yamas and niyamas

Practicing this way is ahimsa, or non-harming, in practice. But it is also about svadhyaya, or self-study. When you look within, you can reflect on what narratives you might have internalized relating to your own experience of gender. Reflect on the ways you’ve personally experienced internal disconnects, suffering, or harm because of the gender binary and our gendered systems. These are constructs and systems that impact us all, regardless of our gender identities.

Trans, non-binary, and gender non-conforming folks suffer in this system, while cisgender folks benefit from it because they’re seen and upheld as the “norm.” And still, this is a both/and scenario. Cisgender folks also experience harmful effects.

For example, cis men and people socialized as men may limit emotional expression, a characteristic associated with toxic masculinity. A system that reinforces heteronormativity also proliferates Western cultural beauty standards. It promotes body shaming, fatphobia, diet culture, slut-shaming, and other harmful behaviors and beliefs that affect people of all gender identities.

Beginning the Culture Shift

In order for us to subvert the gender binary and create safer spaces in which all of us can thrive—and especially those of us most impacted by oppressive systems and structures—we must reflect on what we’ve internalized from harmful messaging and how that plays out in our lives.

This is what it means to take responsibility for yourself and others; this is what it means to commit to the work of holding yourself accountable. Yoga invites us to commit to our individual and collective transformation and liberation, creating a more welcoming and inclusive world for everybody.

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Best Practices for Social Media Accessibility

Creating image descriptions and alt text for social media is part of centering accessibility in our work and marketing, and it will allow us to reach more people.

originally published September 20th, 2020; updated July 26th, 2024

For further learning, study the work of: Sins Invalid, Leah Lakshmi Piepzna-Samarasinha, Mia Mingus, Carol @HigherPriestess.

Content warnings

Content warnings, or trauma warnings, are used when our posts reference or explore content that could potentially be activating to peoples' nervous systems. You might see posts that begin with CW: or TW:, subsequently listing a variety of themes, such as racism, transphobia, disordered eating, body image, etc. Providing a CW gives people the opportunity to make empowered choices about the content they consume. A well-placed CW, prior to content that might unexpectedly catch someone off guard, serves as a pivot point, allowing viewers to make a choice from a place of agency.

Think of this as one way you might offer informed consent and practice trauma awareness on social media.

While our nervous systems will certainly experience varying degrees of activation while scrolling through social media, we can make mindful choices about the types of content we consume, and we can support our community in listening to what they need and cultivating boundaries.

When adding content warnings…

  • Always note the CW first, as a preface before you share the content:

  • In story posts, if you’re sharing content that might be activating, be sure to create one single story slide with the content warning, and then share the content

  • In feed posts, include your content warning at the very top of your caption or in the first carousel slide. Add enough text, or include ellipses or emojis, so that viewers tap “more,” thereby making the subsequent part of your caption only visible to someone who wishes to see it after reviewing the content warning (again, think: trauma-informed consent)

Consider including CWs for the following themes:

  • abuse or violence of any kind

  • harm of any kind, including racism, transphobia, antisemitism, etc.

  • sexual violence

  • disordered eating, body image, weight loss or numbers related to weight

  • self-harm or suicide

  • & more

Any time you speak to a highly sensitive subject, consider first prefacing your post with a content or trauma warning.

Alt text

There are two primary ways to make our images accessible for those who are using screen readers: alt text and image descriptions.

Alt text is is embedded to the photo and not displayed for viewers. It's usually a brief description of the primary image details, shared by screen readers. Alt text is meant to provide the main details of an image, and is usually 140 characters or shorter.

Instagram’s features change regularly; at this moment, you can find the alt text settings when you tap to create a new post—in the frame you see when you start writing a caption, locate “Advanced Settings” at the bottom of that screen. Tap that, then scroll down to Accessibility (it should be the last option in the Advanced Settings menu). Under Accessibility, tap “Write Alt Text.”

Note that Instagram does say it automatically creates alt text for your content. If you’d like to have any ownership over this (and I recommend that you do!), be sure to create your unique words for the image alt text. Again, 140 characters or less. Think one sentence. Also note that if you’re sharing a post with multiple slides, you’ll be prompted to add alt text for each one.

Image descriptions

Image descriptions are visible to viewers and consist of more detailed text explaining what the content encompasses. There are several things to remember when seeking to offer image descriptions:

Be sure to include as much information and details as possible about the graphic(s) you’re sharing, including words to describe clothing styles and colors, haircuts and colors, etc.

Note in your description that it’s a photo or graphic (meaning a marketing/promo image), i.e. “A photo of Tristan and their pup,” or “A graphic featuring a black and white image, underlaying text that reads…”

Place the image description in your caption if space allows. If your caption is too long, consider including something to the effect of “Image ID in comments” to direct screen readers to the comment for the image description.

If you’re sharing a carousel slide post, be sure to offer descriptions of each slide, i.e. "[Image ID: Slide 1 features….]

Be sure to actually include text to explain that you’re offering an image description so that screen readers will announce that part of the caption clearly—preface your image description with something to the effect of:

  • Image ID:

  • [Image:]

  • Pic:

    …or some variation thereof

We are each responsible for creating alt text and image descriptions when sharing accessible content. Though there are auto-generators out there, my understanding is that they don’t suffice, and it’s best if we manually provide these points of accessibility.

Video captioning

Enable it. Your content will reach more people, disabled, neurodivergent, or not.

Hashtag considerations

CamelCase is the recommended practice of capitalizing the first letters of hashtags that include multiple words. CamelCase helps screen readers access the hashtags being usedl.

Next time you include hashtags in a post or comment, consider using CamelCase, i.e. #YogaAndSocialJustice #YogaAndSocialChange

Emoji usage & special characters

Including emojis in your captions may be effective and offer a sense of play to your words or tone. Consider minimizing the amount of emojis or special characters you use in each caption as over-emojizing can confuse screen readers, making it difficult for folks who rely on those devices to receive the message you’re offering. You might also spell out the emoji you use when you do decide to include one, such as: ♥︎♥︎♥︎ [three black heart emojis]

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